Dear Girlfriend, You aint Worth a 'Sponsor'

DEAR GIRLFRIEND,

  Machuka & Niceta: Lens of Adventure Photography

I will never ask you to look more beautiful than you are with your natural look but accept you the way you are. Kindly , do me a favour, DON'T go for a sponsor to cover up for your make up expenses.

I will never ask you to have many clothes in your wardrobe if you don't have a better source of income. But please, Don't go for a sponsor to buy you thongs, skimpy dresses that will make u look expensive when your mind is cheap.

Girlfriend , l will never ask you to compete and compare our other ladies' boyfriends; whether rich or poor, I won't care. But always do me a favour, DON'T pressure yourself in life. A good and rich man at heart will find you if you keep it real.

Girlfriend, let's do this, survival is good but survive while you last with what you can call your sweat not "tips" from your sponsor.

Dear girlfriend, that sponsor has a home he can call home but you have a home only that its your parents '.

Girlfriend, what goes around comes around. How will you manage your daughters if you as an individual is to sponsors?

Dear, find your purpose as a woman. Find your worth in your hard work and not between your legs. Your character will pull a husband to you but your bad habits will push you to the SPONSORS because you never used your Pains to be your success but an advantage to eat another woman's share.

Girlfriend, secure yourself a husband and leave the sponsor to his owner.

©Machuka

Girl, That Guy Ain't Worth You

Ladies don't think dating an older guy than you is worth it. Some guys are just not worth you. Imagine how many ladies he has laid. How many mouths he has kissed. And yet you are there claiming he is well experienced!

Imagine you kept yourself so safe, so off other stuffs that can ruin your life. You work so hard to get where you are. The problems you undergo as a lady as you pursue your education to score high and secure a space in campus are more than of a man. Menstruations being one of them. Sadly, you get to campus then start thinking of dating the experienced guy yet the heart you giving to this guy, he ain't worth it. The virginity you letting him break, he ain't worth it.


Keep it slow, know your value. Be what you have worked so hard to be. If it is a man, make friends out of your age mates. There lies your husband. A man whom you will teach each other to be experienced in love, virtues and values. A man who knows that sex is sacred. A guy who understands loving you is important and valuing you; for you are a jewel.

Girl, value yourself. Forget about dating guys who have finished campus; they have seen most vaginas than yours. So, if you give him your heart and body, he might be one of the walk overs. Be wise. Value your dignity.

Camouflage like Chameleons

Photo Credit: Janet Machuka

Some people were born with smiles in there hearts. Not because of being lucky but because of teaching the heart to smile that translated it to a beautiful facial expression that warms the hearts of whoever's eyes falls on such people. Life is not what you find it and ride on it effortlessly. It is never that way. Life is what you put into action trusting in your efforts that it will turn out to be the best ever. 

For those who live in places that have different kinds of animals; the likes of chameleons and snails, you will realize that a chameleon can stay on the same twig several days but still looking healthy as ever. We all know chameleons never eat leaves. They feed on flesh; insects such as flies and bees. More a times, you will see it stretch it's tongue to reach out for its feed. The delicacy can be seven centimeters away but a careful approach is calculated for it to capture it's prey easily, swiftly and carefully. That's how it will survive until it's time to bid goodbye from the face of the earth. It's camouflage makes it possible to escape a number of dangers as it gets through its life. But that is just a tiny animal with such tactics. 

What about you? What about me? If you go through your life in a daily basis, making a marking scheme of your own, will you score more that half 100%? Will you be of being difference from the way the chameleons do? How many times do you camouflage yourself from the worldly pleasures and pressures? Which calculated ways do you use to attack your enemies of success?

You as an individual can be a chameleon if you let yourself to the test. You can escape from drugs abuse, immorality and deceitful acts just through camouflage. What matters is decision and choice.

Just imagine a chameleon on the same same twig for five days with little movements but still looking strong. Have you ever imagined yourself in that kind of a situation? It can be lack of money that makes you never afford some fashionable things of your desire. It can be your looks that you dislike and yet you are beautifully and wonderfully made by God. It can be that you are not smart in school. But that's nothing. That does not mark or make you decide that your destiny is doomed, NEVER! 

Smart people can make worthwhile decisions. You can be poor in subject examinations but best in coming up with ideas that will change your life and those of others; near, far and beyond. The greatest people are not those who used to be number one in class but those who became their own Bosses in what they decide, execute and act upon it. When you own your efforts even if you stay in the same situation so long as you are working then nothing can stop your greatness from exploding. You can walk the furthest end but never make a difference. The difference is governed by your ambitions. 

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Everyone needs food similarly to all creatures. What matters is how you calculate yourself to acquire that food. Some people can spend their days indoors but make millions of money while others will always be on the roads but still remain poor. Being rich is all about how you plan for your wealth- even if little- and being poor is all about how you spend your wealth. Some people can spend more and remain rich while others will spend more and remain poor. What matters is How Smart You Are With The Kind of Decisions You Make. Ensure that you fit into it. Be of camouflage.

A number of people will associate a chameleon with deceit and ugliness but that's what you believe it is. For the chameleon it is different. There's a purpose to why it can change colours. There's a reason to why it has a long tongue. There's a purpose to why you are dark melanized while she is light melanized. It's never because of choice but because that's how you are to be. 

For instance, you will find a family of two daughters. One is bright in class while the other one is good at knitting. As a parent you claim your child is cursed, doomed and all sorts of words you may use because she cannot perform in class. That's why we are different. That's why there exists a unique you and a different me. That's why we can be of the same age but one grows rich or famous faster and earlier than the other. It's not coincidence but the way your actions, choices, decisions and ideas are executed. 

Never pressure yourself to move faster if you cannot. It's better you walk with the pace you can. Camouflage yourself. Just like a chameleon uses its colour to escape danger, use your five senses to escape harm. As you camouflage yourself, never let tribalism divide you. Never accept politics to separate us. Be like them when you are with them do long as the act you are executing will bring forth Peace, Justice, Harmony and Love. We are one in spite of our slight differences. Be of one UNION like a chameleon and it's SURROUNDING. Be a chameleon that sustains itself wisely and tactfully. 

©Janet Machuka

How to Rikindle men 'power' in bed (part two)

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Balanced diet: Ensure your diet involve proteins, carbohydrates and fats. Make sure you eat healthy throughout the day. In the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, eating a diet rich in fruit, vegetables, whole grains, and fish — with fewer red and processed meat and refined grains — decreased the likelihood of ED.

Additionally, take fresh room temperature water in plenty half an hour before you get to bed. Avoid eating too much prior to bedtime. This is because an extra full stomach is a recipe for tiredness hence one may fall asleep immediately after the first ejaculation.

Avoid stress: One main cause of dysfunction is too much stress. Stress build up more acid in the body increasing the Ph. A body with high acidity is sensitive and it may lead to less sustenance of an erection.

Exercises: daily walks or jogging will prevent one from obesity. This health problem that may lead to high blood pressure, high blood sugar, high cholesterol, and high triglycerides can leading to the penis causing having erectile dysfunction. Therefore, involve yourself in a variety of exercises just to keep fit and prevent this situation.

Fasting: Definitely, one would need to separate himself from all other things and conduct seasoned fasting. It does not just help you spiritually but is also a perfect way to reboot your organs and body systems. Be careful to begin moderately and end with soft foods. This revamps and resuscitates optimal body functions.

Don't brag or be proud: Some men maybe too proud to let their women know they are having a problem. They will rather keep quiet about it. This maybe as a result of pride and ego they have. Talk to your lady and let her know how you feel. Communication is key when it comes to intimate matters such as intercourse. If you have failed, let her not criticize as that will make you more ashamed and afraid of failing. Through talks, she might suggest ways in which you can curb the problem than her going for ‘mpango wa kando.’

Ladies, it may never be an easy time during the remedy of the situation but give it time and patience before breaking what was combined in love. 

3 things that could be weakening men in bed (Part One)

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It is common knowledge from research that most ladies in real life are not fully satisfied emotionally because most men performance is decreasing drastically.

No matter what you give a wife as a man, if you cannot satisfy her, she will always be discontented, complaining and certainly if opportunity knocks her door, she will try luck elsewhere. In case she had a boyfriend before marriage who made her feel the deep intensity, never be surprised if she looks for him (even if he is ‘a nobody’).

Sometimes women fake a congratulatory remark only to make him feel he has done it. This manner has helped in a number of instances in that he gains more confidence and psyche to do it better. For instance, the following are the some of the causes of weakened power in inn men and remedies.

What’s weakening men?

      1. Insults from their women: Some women complain to an extent they tell it on the faces of their men of the job being poorly done. In this case, men become too ashamed to an extent that their self-esteem diminishes. This might even result to them arriving home late since they cannot withstand to the occasion hence avoid insult.

     2. Fear of quick ejaculation: Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like. Some men are too anxious and eager to the occasion. This might cause quick ejaculation even before the woman is satisfied fully.

     3. Health-Erectile dysfunction: According to the National Kidney and Urologic Diseases Information Clearinghouse, erectile dysfunction affects more than 30 million men yearly though it might be temporary in younger adult men. This is a situation where manhood ceases to be erectile and hard enough during intercourse. It is worrying the fact that the condition is extending even to adults who have not reached impotence age. For instance, this sets in as a result of stress, injuries, relationships or emotional difficulties and a sign of health problems.

THE EYE THAT SAW HER

Model(Janet Machuka): Kamanda Dynasty Photography

She may have gone through a heartbreak

Until when she realized better to take a break

From the worldly pains and hurts

Her heart in sorrows and hurts

Pierced a thousand needles without shreds of tenderness

Slowly but keenly eating her to nothingness

Slow breathes

Heavy gasps

Full of nightmares

Deserted being

For no human being

Of the opposite sex

Gave reason for stress

Under the manicured vegetation she lay

Watching the stars that never twinkle

Her heart full of tortured love

Waiting for a rescue.

Keli walked nearby as if moved in a way

He has been comforting her for a while now

Giving her shoulder to lean

Telling her crazy and funny stories for her to smile

Hugging her; showing how much he cared

But inside he hurt

Before him was a load

Within him was love for her

She has been single for a year now

Keli has been there all through.

He never misses their ice cream moments

She always smiles as she appreciated in good comments

He stares at her

Too scared to tell her

What he really wants her to know

Without breaking his vow

Of making her mad for loving her

She leaves him breathless

The eye that saw her true being liked her

The friend that learnt her personality loved her

The ear that heard her talk of her future wished for her

The hands that hugged her yearned for her to stay

The sense that loved her wholeheartedly craved to tell her

But how she will take it withdrew his plans.

The poor chap cried within

Trickling of love untold

Wanting her so bad

Loving her so hard

Care, Character

Humbleness, Kindness

Real, Trustworthiness

Is all her.

9 Reasons to Why Businesses Need Social Media

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There is a need for every business to get themselves on the online platforms. For instance, these are some of the reasons to why business must be on social media.

     1. To reach many people internationally at the shortest time frame as possible. The social media platform gives am organization a chance to interact with people from every part of the world. This is because it makes the world behave like a small village of people. The distance is shortened hence can get information easily. For example, it is easier for someone in in Canada to get news about the launch of Homepesa Sacco as it happens through online sharing.

     2. The world is in a digital era, hence the need for technological embracement and usage. A number of countries are migrating to the digital platforms. People are learning to communicate and share ideas through social media. Business needs an audience, so does their need to exist on social media platforms.

     3. Social media is easily available, fast, flexible and reliable. Internet installation has been put up in most parts in the world, both rural and in urban areas. A number of people have smartphones that allow access of social media platforms, the likes of WhatsApp.  Information is shared and reached to the target audience easily.

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     4. It promotes networking between businesses within and without its location. Business people and personnel who are good in coming up with creative ideas on business from all over the world can connect. For instance, World Ventures is an international business that aims at networking. People work together in spite of the location, race and language but with a set target which is business expansion.

     5. It promotes global interactions which leads to exchange of business ideas. A number of local businesses exist in a better form due to the exchange of ideas. Business people can interact, borrow and share ideas that they can use to start or improve their organizations. Social media has made that easier. Business meetings can also be held online though teleconferencing that can boost the exchange of ideas.

     6. Promotes a better way of archiving business ideas that can be used for future references. A business that needs statistics on how certain situations work can get information that was archived in the Google links that can be used to analyze the organization’s performance.

     7. Gives organizations an easy and better way of branding their products and services. Companies and individuals can brand themselves. For instance, Jumia online shopping company is well known due to its branding. It is easy to identify it on any social media platform with its simple unique name.

    8. Social media enables easy and fast access to feedback and interactions between organizations and their customers. A company can set a trend to discuss the services a certain product has given people. For instance, has the product met the expectations of the customers? Through interactions, the organization can get feedback so that they can know what to improve on in their products and services.

     9. Social media is cheaper compared to mainstream media. Printing banners, advertising on radio and television have a limited coverage and is expensive compared to social media. Social media requires creativity and use of interactive posters and videos to convey advertisements of businesses that reach a number of people in the local, national and international view.

SMILE WITH ME ELI

Some sparks of love is worth letting them grow
That feeling of having someone who can laugh when you laugh
Smile when you smile
Lie down with you when both are tired
And believe you good together even though challenges may try to separate you
Pray to get someone who is deeply into you
Deep in knowing you but not only deep in loving you
When you know someone best,  it's easier to know to what extent you can love
I love you for I found you for myself
You've already taken over my heart
You running my world ain't that I'm weak
No idea how but it just happened
I have never been happy this way
All I ask from you is to open your heart and see that thing in me
Make good use of it with love
For your cry will be a touch in my heart to heed and help you
And your smile in your lips be my joy in my heart
Heart you

GIRL, FACEBOOK IS NOT YOUR COURT TO SPILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

I dont understand why some ladies will let social media be the best place to get advice on their problems.
They will keep posting words and sharing articles that suggest that they are desperate.
Trust me girl, if you continue in that manner, you will never learn.
A number of men; handsome and black candies that will be a choice of many girls willmake their way to our place.
They will give you the Care you have never received.
They will make you feel very important than the manner in which your now complicated lover did.
Then you make drastic and irrational conclusions thinking that they are interested in you.
He holds you on your waste then your neck, trust me, after then you can't say no if he kisses you.
You let things move so fast than you expected.
You sigh, " uuh finally I have comfort."
One, two, three days you get closer to the guy.
You lose yourself and give in to him.
He uses you then gives you words that you hate yourself and plan to be the worse than you are.
Then you start counting the number of boyfriends you have had who walked in and left just when you were almost giving you full power to love.
That's how you life will be like if you keep on posting suggestive messages to show that you are heartbroken.
That's why you will never meet a serious guy who is ready to treat you well.
He might be there but know that your stupidity keeps him there in that he fears you might commit suicide if he leaves you for good.
Girl! Give yourself some class!
Stop stooping too low for social media!
Stop being desperate of a man who has variety to choose from!
Stop making yourself look like you are begging for love when you need it genuinely.


Now let me tell you the truth about men.
They will use you and use you well if you show all your weaknesses.
They will continuously mess up with you because they know you will be back to them after all even if issues come forth.


You can never tame a man if show him your weakest points, don't close him up in a cage by blocking some numbers of his girlfriend who you think are better than you- huh girl, you don't know you just giving yourself a red card!
Why will you block numbers of ladies in your man's phone?
Wait, maybe you still have that childish mind that you have cleared them off his paths.

But

What if he has crammed their numbers?
What if he uses his friends' phone to call them?
You can't control people through your selfish gains.
You can't get into someone's life And harden his life when he thought you came to his life to make life easier for him
Instead,you make it more difficult and stressful.
Please girl if you haven't grown to a woman who knows what to do in relationships and what not to, get your feelings straight, get your being together.
You must know how to control yourself.


Trust him if he is genuine with you!
After all why will he tell you all about the girls he has in his life if he doesn't love you.
But you disrespect him and go ahead to call the "infatuated ladies you think he is grooving with" when you can use that time patching up your Walls of love!


Today I am screaming in a written by format, GROW UP GIRLFRIEND!
Stop growing to be a Child instead of a Woman who is yet to be a mother.
Listen to me girl, put relationships off social media.
The same measure you will be lavishing yourselves"deeply"in love and yet he hasn't opened his mouth to say anything, is the same measure you will be "deeply" into getting it back at himand it will crumble.
Remember Social Media is for communication and interactions not a place to publicize your relationship not unless you are very sure you will be married soonest.

😎😎
Ladies who are trying to live like girls forever and sadly you are already done with campus, grow up!
Get yourself together. By now you should know how to fight for your love and not kill his ego on social media.

I rest my case

©JanetMachuka_