How to Rikindle men 'power' in bed (part two)

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Balanced diet: Ensure your diet involve proteins, carbohydrates and fats. Make sure you eat healthy throughout the day. In the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, eating a diet rich in fruit, vegetables, whole grains, and fish — with fewer red and processed meat and refined grains — decreased the likelihood of ED.

Additionally, take fresh room temperature water in plenty half an hour before you get to bed. Avoid eating too much prior to bedtime. This is because an extra full stomach is a recipe for tiredness hence one may fall asleep immediately after the first ejaculation.

Avoid stress: One main cause of dysfunction is too much stress. Stress build up more acid in the body increasing the Ph. A body with high acidity is sensitive and it may lead to less sustenance of an erection.

Exercises: daily walks or jogging will prevent one from obesity. This health problem that may lead to high blood pressure, high blood sugar, high cholesterol, and high triglycerides can leading to the penis causing having erectile dysfunction. Therefore, involve yourself in a variety of exercises just to keep fit and prevent this situation.

Fasting: Definitely, one would need to separate himself from all other things and conduct seasoned fasting. It does not just help you spiritually but is also a perfect way to reboot your organs and body systems. Be careful to begin moderately and end with soft foods. This revamps and resuscitates optimal body functions.

Don't brag or be proud: Some men maybe too proud to let their women know they are having a problem. They will rather keep quiet about it. This maybe as a result of pride and ego they have. Talk to your lady and let her know how you feel. Communication is key when it comes to intimate matters such as intercourse. If you have failed, let her not criticize as that will make you more ashamed and afraid of failing. Through talks, she might suggest ways in which you can curb the problem than her going for ‘mpango wa kando.’

Ladies, it may never be an easy time during the remedy of the situation but give it time and patience before breaking what was combined in love. 

3 things that could be weakening men in bed (Part One)

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It is common knowledge from research that most ladies in real life are not fully satisfied emotionally because most men performance is decreasing drastically.

No matter what you give a wife as a man, if you cannot satisfy her, she will always be discontented, complaining and certainly if opportunity knocks her door, she will try luck elsewhere. In case she had a boyfriend before marriage who made her feel the deep intensity, never be surprised if she looks for him (even if he is ‘a nobody’).

Sometimes women fake a congratulatory remark only to make him feel he has done it. This manner has helped in a number of instances in that he gains more confidence and psyche to do it better. For instance, the following are the some of the causes of weakened power in inn men and remedies.

What’s weakening men?

      1. Insults from their women: Some women complain to an extent they tell it on the faces of their men of the job being poorly done. In this case, men become too ashamed to an extent that their self-esteem diminishes. This might even result to them arriving home late since they cannot withstand to the occasion hence avoid insult.

     2. Fear of quick ejaculation: Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like. Some men are too anxious and eager to the occasion. This might cause quick ejaculation even before the woman is satisfied fully.

     3. Health-Erectile dysfunction: According to the National Kidney and Urologic Diseases Information Clearinghouse, erectile dysfunction affects more than 30 million men yearly though it might be temporary in younger adult men. This is a situation where manhood ceases to be erectile and hard enough during intercourse. It is worrying the fact that the condition is extending even to adults who have not reached impotence age. For instance, this sets in as a result of stress, injuries, relationships or emotional difficulties and a sign of health problems.

THE EYE THAT SAW HER

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She may have gone through a heartbreak

Until when she realized better to take a break

From the worldly pains and hurts

Her heart in sorrows and hurts

Pierced a thousand needles without shreds of tenderness

Slowly but keenly eating her to nothingness

Slow breathes

Heavy gasps

Full of nightmares

Deserted being

For no human being

Of the opposite sex

Gave reason for stress

Under the manicured vegetation she lay

Watching the stars that never twinkle

Her heart full of tortured love

Waiting for a rescue.

Keli walked nearby as if moved in a way

He has been comforting her for a while now

Giving her shoulder to lean

Telling her crazy and funny stories for her to smile

Hugging her; showing how much he cared

But inside he hurt

Before him was a load

Within him was love for her

She has been single for a year now

Keli has been there all through.

He never misses their ice cream moments

She always smiles as she appreciated in good comments

He stares at her

Too scared to tell her

What he really wants her to know

Without breaking his vow

Of making her mad for loving her

She leaves him breathless

The eye that saw her true being liked her

The friend that learnt her personality loved her

The ear that heard her talk of her future wished for her

The hands that hugged her yearned for her to stay

The sense that loved her wholeheartedly craved to tell her

But how she will take it withdrew his plans.

The poor chap cried within

Trickling of love untold

Wanting her so bad

Loving her so hard

Care, Character

Humbleness, Kindness

Real, Trustworthiness

Is all her.

9 Reasons to Why Businesses Need Social Media

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There is a need for every business to get themselves on the online platforms. For instance, these are some of the reasons to why business must be on social media.

     1. To reach many people internationally at the shortest time frame as possible. The social media platform gives am organization a chance to interact with people from every part of the world. This is because it makes the world behave like a small village of people. The distance is shortened hence can get information easily. For example, it is easier for someone in in Canada to get news about the launch of Homepesa Sacco as it happens through online sharing.

     2. The world is in a digital era, hence the need for technological embracement and usage. A number of countries are migrating to the digital platforms. People are learning to communicate and share ideas through social media. Business needs an audience, so does their need to exist on social media platforms.

     3. Social media is easily available, fast, flexible and reliable. Internet installation has been put up in most parts in the world, both rural and in urban areas. A number of people have smartphones that allow access of social media platforms, the likes of WhatsApp.  Information is shared and reached to the target audience easily.

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     4. It promotes networking between businesses within and without its location. Business people and personnel who are good in coming up with creative ideas on business from all over the world can connect. For instance, World Ventures is an international business that aims at networking. People work together in spite of the location, race and language but with a set target which is business expansion.

     5. It promotes global interactions which leads to exchange of business ideas. A number of local businesses exist in a better form due to the exchange of ideas. Business people can interact, borrow and share ideas that they can use to start or improve their organizations. Social media has made that easier. Business meetings can also be held online though teleconferencing that can boost the exchange of ideas.

     6. Promotes a better way of archiving business ideas that can be used for future references. A business that needs statistics on how certain situations work can get information that was archived in the Google links that can be used to analyze the organization’s performance.

     7. Gives organizations an easy and better way of branding their products and services. Companies and individuals can brand themselves. For instance, Jumia online shopping company is well known due to its branding. It is easy to identify it on any social media platform with its simple unique name.

    8. Social media enables easy and fast access to feedback and interactions between organizations and their customers. A company can set a trend to discuss the services a certain product has given people. For instance, has the product met the expectations of the customers? Through interactions, the organization can get feedback so that they can know what to improve on in their products and services.

     9. Social media is cheaper compared to mainstream media. Printing banners, advertising on radio and television have a limited coverage and is expensive compared to social media. Social media requires creativity and use of interactive posters and videos to convey advertisements of businesses that reach a number of people in the local, national and international view.

SMILE WITH ME ELI

Some sparks of love is worth letting them grow
That feeling of having someone who can laugh when you laugh
Smile when you smile
Lie down with you when both are tired
And believe you good together even though challenges may try to separate you
Pray to get someone who is deeply into you
Deep in knowing you but not only deep in loving you
When you know someone best,  it's easier to know to what extent you can love
I love you for I found you for myself
You've already taken over my heart
You running my world ain't that I'm weak
No idea how but it just happened
I have never been happy this way
All I ask from you is to open your heart and see that thing in me
Make good use of it with love
For your cry will be a touch in my heart to heed and help you
And your smile in your lips be my joy in my heart
Heart you

GIRL, FACEBOOK IS NOT YOUR COURT TO SPILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

I dont understand why some ladies will let social media be the best place to get advice on their problems.
They will keep posting words and sharing articles that suggest that they are desperate.
Trust me girl, if you continue in that manner, you will never learn.
A number of men; handsome and black candies that will be a choice of many girls willmake their way to our place.
They will give you the Care you have never received.
They will make you feel very important than the manner in which your now complicated lover did.
Then you make drastic and irrational conclusions thinking that they are interested in you.
He holds you on your waste then your neck, trust me, after then you can't say no if he kisses you.
You let things move so fast than you expected.
You sigh, " uuh finally I have comfort."
One, two, three days you get closer to the guy.
You lose yourself and give in to him.
He uses you then gives you words that you hate yourself and plan to be the worse than you are.
Then you start counting the number of boyfriends you have had who walked in and left just when you were almost giving you full power to love.
That's how you life will be like if you keep on posting suggestive messages to show that you are heartbroken.
That's why you will never meet a serious guy who is ready to treat you well.
He might be there but know that your stupidity keeps him there in that he fears you might commit suicide if he leaves you for good.
Girl! Give yourself some class!
Stop stooping too low for social media!
Stop being desperate of a man who has variety to choose from!
Stop making yourself look like you are begging for love when you need it genuinely.


Now let me tell you the truth about men.
They will use you and use you well if you show all your weaknesses.
They will continuously mess up with you because they know you will be back to them after all even if issues come forth.


You can never tame a man if show him your weakest points, don't close him up in a cage by blocking some numbers of his girlfriend who you think are better than you- huh girl, you don't know you just giving yourself a red card!
Why will you block numbers of ladies in your man's phone?
Wait, maybe you still have that childish mind that you have cleared them off his paths.

But

What if he has crammed their numbers?
What if he uses his friends' phone to call them?
You can't control people through your selfish gains.
You can't get into someone's life And harden his life when he thought you came to his life to make life easier for him
Instead,you make it more difficult and stressful.
Please girl if you haven't grown to a woman who knows what to do in relationships and what not to, get your feelings straight, get your being together.
You must know how to control yourself.


Trust him if he is genuine with you!
After all why will he tell you all about the girls he has in his life if he doesn't love you.
But you disrespect him and go ahead to call the "infatuated ladies you think he is grooving with" when you can use that time patching up your Walls of love!


Today I am screaming in a written by format, GROW UP GIRLFRIEND!
Stop growing to be a Child instead of a Woman who is yet to be a mother.
Listen to me girl, put relationships off social media.
The same measure you will be lavishing yourselves"deeply"in love and yet he hasn't opened his mouth to say anything, is the same measure you will be "deeply" into getting it back at himand it will crumble.
Remember Social Media is for communication and interactions not a place to publicize your relationship not unless you are very sure you will be married soonest.

😎😎
Ladies who are trying to live like girls forever and sadly you are already done with campus, grow up!
Get yourself together. By now you should know how to fight for your love and not kill his ego on social media.

I rest my case

©JanetMachuka_

5 Things that an Attention Seeker Campus Guy Does

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If you are keen enough as a campus students or rather you happen to be in campus for a while, you will easily realize a number of gentlemen who will like to be noticed. They will do anything jut to be the talk of anyone who sees them. Not that they will be spoken of the good things they have done in the school fraternity and the society but for how their appearance is.

For instance, a number who will like to be attention seekers in the university ways as they stroll with their girlfriends have the following characteristics.

1.      Dressing

In most cases, they will keep hair which I will term as kinky and shaggy. Some will colour their shaggy dreaded hair with yellow, blond and maroon. Their clothes are rugged with screaming colours. Mostly, they will wear vests with tattered pair of trousers that show their naked skins. Jewelleries are their choice with bling bling on their ostrich necks, pierced ears, noses, eyebrows, mouths and every finger with its woman. They call themselves the swag team with sagged baggy pair of trousers and shorts.

2.      Language

Their language is cheap, full of sheng and may not make sense at most times. They will tend to talk to people in an unfamiliar language such as the Rastafarians’ language. For instance, I happened to have a chat with two of these type of guys in the campus streets and I realized that they talk unnecessarily. They will argue on small things loudly and raise pointless topics. Sadly, I had to agree with their talks not knowing I was fed up. What they don’t remember is that, they are making a fool out of their talks that may leave an audience startled.

3.      Girlish behaviour

These category ape the walking style of ladies. They talk and act like ladies. In most cases, they will look inferior to attack, as they defend themselves in a laddish manner. In several occasions, they like walking in a company of ladies since other men act like a threat to them. It is easy to identify such men. Who cannot identify a donkey in a flock of sheep? Furthermore, they will add ‘mouthy’ pic styles in their Instagrams and ‘advertise’ their ladies on social media by adding flashy pictures day after day.

4.      Gadgets

Every campus chic and boy wants the newest gadgets in the market. But, this type of boys will always walk around with their big sized gadgets in their hands. At most situations, they will ensure that the tablets are on full volume mode in meetings to distract the now attentive audience.

5.      Public Relations

Well, these kind of boys will always be identified with ‘pretty and spoilt’ campus girls. These are the girls who will where skimpy clothing in the cold season as if it is a moment at the sunny beach in Mombasa and cotton jackets in the sunny season. Their relations revolve around the same opposite character personnel. Who cannot identify a boy a group of attention seeking ladies walking in the campus streets?

JOURNEY TO UNKNOWN DESTINY: Part one

Call it obsession. Infatuation. Lust. Crave. But not love! Love is not a feeling for feelings can be satisfied. Love is never blind for even the blind can love. God instilled us with love as an unconditional gift for He loves us as always. Love is that which that brings peace and tranquillity despite of the enmity that can be among us. It is the strings that can still keep you holding onto a relationship; it can be a family, friendship relationship.

On contrary, most belief love is the satisfaction tour lusts and forget compatibility. This is a newer. Where social media is our best friend more than our face to face friends. Our social life being best based on our physicality and not personality. Individuality has become less important thus dependence on public opinion on our private issues.

'Love' between two has become public.
The societal norms being the last option or rather not even counted as important to help us in decision making. Social media such as Facebook has become our grounds for meeting dashing partners; with a well grown ass, busty chest, slim waist and superb complexion.

We inbox masquerade of words complimenting their looks though half naked we opt to think they are the best to love for they will give you satisfaction-that's what you call love. Love is not physical attraction mainly. The beauty of a person lies within her/his deeds and the mind. I tend to oppose the proverb; "Beauty lies in the hands of the beholder." This is because in our generation beauty lies in the hands of the public opinions!
Okay, it may sound awesome and worth of being proud posting photos of your lovers in public instagram and Facebook-dressed in sexy clothing showing off some of their body parts. Followers will compliment you with worthwhile comments. You feel good. You feel a winner. You feel the best player in the relationship game. Am sorry to say, you are the cheapest and worst player!
Have you given it a thought? What if you are advertising her for the "Team Mafisi, kidnappers or rapists?" Later you start abusing her/him on the same same social media on how cheap/a player she/he is after lavishing her with intimate words to make her/him most important. I call it bull hotbed shit!

Always look before you leap. If she has not bored a kid for you; you have no full right to her. If you the friends and family have not approved her; she is not yours yet. If your love is based on living the present without thinking the future; you two are never to be.

Love is a principle. Principles are meant to make us worth people. People who can make their own decisions and not depend on public oriented decisions considering private issues. The same amount you make love relationships public you will use the same public to share your troubles. You are the only problem to your problems and the only solution to your problems.

Love is not hormone oriented. For hormones trigger feelings. Feelings are not based on compatibility for they fade. Love does not hurt for feelings do. Love never fails even the end of times for it is instilled in us always. Love does not boast for it sustains in peace and harmony.

Well, youngsters, it is time we base our love to be a private issue. If it is a must for it to be public let it be once you two have wrinkles. Have withstood the shackles and pains of marriage but still kept the spirit of togetherness.
Been watching closely these two youngsters in love through instagram and facebook.  Always posting photos of them dressed in their swag style, exchanging intimate words to each other adding flavour with the love emoji, kissing (public sex act) and showing off the best of each other.

Am neither jealous nor surprised but; will that swag pay you rent in future? Keep up a family? Make you the best couple as you spend time travelling from town to town having fun; drinking the most expensive alcohols, dining in most expensive hotels, attending all kinds of parties while you take photos of you smoking shisha? Then you believe all this fun you have you two you will make a good couple. Never! She/he loves you because of your physical beauty and your money that ‘gonna’ make you two be known for money speaks louder than simplicity in our generation.

I can’t judge you. I can only give pieces of advice. A good name is better than riches. Manners maketh a man. A good wife is what Proverbs 30:10-31 describes. Love is what 1John 3:18 says. Love does wonders if given a chance to value it responsibly not imparting hormonal reactions to be love.

Love does not hate.
It cares
Love never fails.
It is unending
Love does not assume
It appreciates
Love is not blind
It is the actions in truth
Love does not give up
It embraces the pains.

The parents you are evading to guide you on Love Matters and running for public opinion are the best counsellors. You may think they know less but you know nothing! A best relationship is one led privately and seeks guidance in a way worth to emulate. Love between two isn’t a PUBLICOPINION!!

The 'Bents' and the 'Straits': What Does it Matter?

Disclaimer: I, Faraj, believe in heterosexual relations between human beings. For purposes of these sermons or other; I am not going to necessarily defend LGBT groups and related. I am rather going to speak my mind. I am a strait narrow in this regard and whoever doubts it must ask my male and female significant others. I am too old to do experiments that will make my fathers' guts churn in their graves. But I am going to speak my mind about heterosexuals vis-a-vis LGBT groups. Like the Equator, my moral line is arbitrary; but clear.
Strait is good. It is popular. It is normal. It is fashionable. It is a natural expectation. It is any other fallacy that would make it sinless. Blemishless.

The moral questions. What makes adultery less awful as compared to lesbianism? What makes the East peculiarly tolerate homosexuality and bisexuality as viewed against the eternal sin of, say, bestiality or incest?

Morals come from one: religion. God (in most religions) says bad things about homosexuality. He defines how we are supposed to have sex and with whom. In this way; piety is proscriptive against the self-will and the quintessence of curiosity that God allegedly gave man. So we become dichotomous regarding right and wrong. In the religious politics of right and wrong; religion becomes, essentially, an efficient regulator of being.

Two. Our innate human nature enables us to define what is right and wrong. Gut sense. The angel in us. Something tells a (presumably) sound human that defilement is wrong. Albeit the innate human sense reflects of some uniformity across cultures and generations. It is irredeemably subjective. Human soundness is subjective. A 'bent' person will, in his innate human sense, argue that he was born gay; or that he has become used to it till in his head and manners has achieved a threshold of moral normalcy. Same for a strait whose argument would, more often than not, be bounded by the tyranny of democracy. And history.

Three is socialization. Traditional and modern. Very few societies separate religion from formal education. I suspect that it is for the common assumption that secularizing education sucks all ethic from it. That is living the lie. Postmodern societies are persuaded that religion has no place in their tadpoles' early socialization. Culture is the host that carries education. Values. Norms. Artifacts. Tools. Trades. Et cetera.
From generation to generation. LGBT is not a value in many societies. Though it is as old as pederasty practiced in many old societies. We will almost naturally therefore detest what our fathers never taught us. Formal education especially in Africa; having been heavily fused in religion makes our appetite for liberty low; and our tolerance to the 'bents' lower.

Four. Neoculture, through the speed and rate of consumption of information. New and completely convergent cultures have emerged. Cross-cultural contact. Acculturation. Enculturation. Resocialization. Traditional and emerging media have all sexualized our lives suppressing what was thought as taboo. The lines that demarcate right and wrong in our heads are therefore getting more blurred at the speed at which we access new information. We are exposed. We are therefore gradually accepting 'alternative sexuality' in most cases, subconsciously. In which case LGBT is becoming a new level of normalcy.

In a thousand words. Religion taught me to love my neighbor. Science taught me to test God and He will understand. I cannot love that whom I haven't seen (my neighbor).

Eventually our conservative beliefs are soon overrun by time. Religion and the concept of God and hope become stunted and suffocated by our liberties to research. Mainstream religious order gradually accepts LGBT. When religious order is affright with new challenges, doomsday gets blurred, the promise of a heaven with milk and honey sublimes unto an unchecked level of moral liberty.
Having been persuaded that what I have said above is true to my nerve; I would not make a fuss about the morality of LGBT, or lack of it. Morals are agreeably necessary for survival of humanity, as well as for regulation of behaviour. But they are subjective as well.

Doomsday comes the day you die. Let these people live (or die) up to their milk and honey.

©2016 Faraj Nyanchoga

Poetic Trumpets: I WANT

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Would love to see you
Lying on my hairy chest
Letting me caress your body gently
Feeling the smell of your soft skin affectionately
Whisper into your ears sweet melodies
Plant countless kisses on your forehead
Feel the two spongy calabashes upfront
Scrub you softly and hold you tightly on my chest
Make those touches tender
Till sweat starts dropping down your pants
I want to kiss those drenched lips
And make your pot moist
I want to hold those long legs
And gently squeeze them with lust
I want to look directly into your sleepy eyes
And express my deep affection
I want to feel that scent
Yes, that scent that weakens my bones
That scent that makes butterflies bow to your command
I want to smell that fragrance
The fragrance that I can feel from a distance
The one that announces your presence miles away
I want to touch that beauty with my own eyes
The beauty which makes men with stiff necks turn
The beauty drawn from the stars
I want to set those legs apart
And move them the way you want
Follow your command
And oblige to your demands
Make you weak to the core
And get your body soaked
I want to dance to your tunes
Listen to your heartbeat
Listen to those soft beats that sooth my heart
Get to the ballroom and dance the tango
Or should we dance the salsa?
With your earphones on, and the music slow
I want you to set the right ambience for this

@Phoenix ~Poet

SEX WONT MAKE US BETTER YOUNGSTERS

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We meet those specific angels who throb our hearts
Who warm up our body temperatures and sweat trickles
That leaves our eyes having a hip hop dance as they stare
"I want you! Even just for a hug! Just for a night!"
Hormones take over as desires so tempting to touch
Though, we not physical touch, we touch with our eyes
We look into the future and fantasize that bed of roses
Playing hide-and-seek, a game without a referee.
Playing "cha mama na baba" and cook the meals we never fit to

Young, beautiful, breathtaking physique to let go off eyes
We find these intriguing personnel
Driven by beauty
Desires for a duty
"You look hot, stunning, beautiful, I love your lips,..."
All the social media crap!
She falls for it
Her body warming as the hormones awaken
Making her face lit with glee and glamour
Imaginations takes control
Desires build fantasies
The craves rise
The words make meaning
She listens, she entertains him
The conversation burns up
Bam! Then, 'l love you sets in!'
HELL NO! ~ THAT WAS FAST AND CHEAP!

A day is scheduled
They meet in town
She, dressed to kill ~and evoke the emotions
He, dressed in his latest swag
Looks a 'yoyo'
She thinks, 'damn he got swag!'
Up to date~yes!
But wonder, is the upstair updated?
Which kind of chip is installed?
Durable, perishable, updated?

He takes her by the hand
Walks besides her along the streets
Acts like a Vikings' actor masculine to protect what is his
She feels great
She brushes off smiles as passers-by steal a glance at them
'This is my man! Bitches please, 'choke yourselves'!
Team mafisi, 'kuleni kwa macho!'
That could be read once a sight on them.

In this five star hotel
Can be Serena, Ole Sereni, Hilton
They walk like a couple in their honeymoon
Sit opposite each other
Maybe, for a better view of the cleavage with popping yellow yellow fresh pawpaws ready for blending
He bites his lips,
She shies off
"Queen, what are we to be served"
Her heart skips a bit
In her mind she's like
'Damn! I'm lucky'
Fish, baby spinach, wine, and all delicacy ordered served
Conversations become intimate
He wipes her lips
Blushing, her eyes falls
All full and set
They walk out as he held her by the hand
She leans on his shoulder
Comfortable!

'Can we have a rest while we talk?'
She nods up and down
He giggles
Leads her to a bed and breakfast restaurant
Books a room
They set in for a rest.

But do they talk?
Yes, they speak in tongues
They utter words worth a travel to the moon
Huh! Don't forget they have no knowledge to do with rocket science
But to the moon they journey
They eat honey on their way
They marry each other
They bore 'babies'
*Babe, l love you!*
*I love you too!*
They enjoy.

The rocket lands on earth
After a successful study of the moon
They dress up
Walk out
Pay for the services
Head to the bus stop
Girl boards, with sh.100 transport
There's no 'babe' again
Just a weird wave
Goodbye!

You hate yourself than you had valued yourself earlier
You hate your actions
Your thighs pain
Your virginity gone!

Did sex make you a better person?
Did sex give you a reason to be proud of yourself?
What is your real face?
Yes
You broke your principle
You made 'fake love'
He just wanted fun
He is gone!
He can now brag
He can now say you nothing but cheap

You cry
You hate
You upgrade to a mother
Hardships set in
You drop out of school
You are now a parent
Or infected with a disease

Young sex won't make you mature
It won't make you a genius
It destroys
Do not commit adultery
Stay safe
Stay in God's light
Stay principled
And save the best for your wife
Be the best for your husband.

THERE'S SUCCESS IN EVERY PAIN

You are a young person, a parent, a teacher, a priest, a president and others who are reading this today; I know life has not given you all time pleasant moments of happiness without sadness. Without the hurt of the heart and the tear of the heart with bitter tears and ripped off personality. Well, if you have never encountered that moment then you have to prepare. 

Prepare to face it like an eagle. Prepare to mount and be a mountain even if you whether slowly, you can withstand and hold the position right. Without pain, you can never understand struggle. Without struggle you will never see the reasons to push on, keep abreast and always believe that the doors to success will open. 

They may not open all at once and your life become so smooth and swift the way you can imagine. No. Success comes in bits. It comes with the efforts you put into your actions and not your words. For you can talk all day but never change a thing. But if you act, if you fit the key into the keyhole and turn it to open, if you hold the knob and unlock the door to get in and set for the work that you have to do to prove your pains and determination that you have to undergo to reach the path with fruits, then you are doomed. 

I like it when life is referred to us as a bed of roses. Roses have thorns. Roses are beautiful. Beauty comes with a price. A well-kept homestead with a beautiful flower garden and cut grass comes to existence as efforts of the dwellers. Today, purpose to be stronger because you are strong already. Look forward to hurt keeping in mind that you are a winner even though pain may try to pin you down and drag you to a corner. 

You are exemplary. That's why you are never completely the exact copy of the other. Use what you have for the better of you and the society at large. Share your pain. Share your success. I know, a number of people will mute when they succeed. But for anyone who knows the real pain without the use of corruption, nepotism, tribalism and the rest will never forget his or her ways to the top hence will always look up to the best. 

It is your time. Make it happen. It is never too hard to make it a reality. If our forefathers did it, then we can endure it and be the best among the best; be the wisest among the wise. The ball is in your coat friend. What do you choose? Pain? Success? Both?

Pain in Success Vol. 1 By Machuka Janet

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