Call it obsession. Infatuation. Lust. Crave. But not love! Love is not a feeling for feelings can be satisfied. Love is never blind for even the blind can love. God instilled us with love as an unconditional gift for He loves us as always. Love is that which that brings peace and tranquillity despite of the enmity that can be among us. It is the strings that can still keep you holding onto a relationship; it can be a family, friendship relationship.
On contrary, most belief love is the satisfaction tour lusts and forget compatibility. This is a newer. Where social media is our best friend more than our face to face friends. Our social life being best based on our physicality and not personality. Individuality has become less important thus dependence on public opinion on our private issues.
'Love' between two has become public.
The societal norms being the last option or rather not even counted as important to help us in decision making. Social media such as Facebook has become our grounds for meeting dashing partners; with a well grown ass, busty chest, slim waist and superb complexion.
We inbox masquerade of words complimenting their looks though half naked we opt to think they are the best to love for they will give you satisfaction-that's what you call love. Love is not physical attraction mainly. The beauty of a person lies within her/his deeds and the mind. I tend to oppose the proverb; "Beauty lies in the hands of the beholder." This is because in our generation beauty lies in the hands of the public opinions!
Okay, it may sound awesome and worth of being proud posting photos of your lovers in public instagram and Facebook-dressed in sexy clothing showing off some of their body parts. Followers will compliment you with worthwhile comments. You feel good. You feel a winner. You feel the best player in the relationship game. Am sorry to say, you are the cheapest and worst player!
Have you given it a thought? What if you are advertising her for the "Team Mafisi, kidnappers or rapists?" Later you start abusing her/him on the same same social media on how cheap/a player she/he is after lavishing her with intimate words to make her/him most important. I call it bull hotbed shit!
Always look before you leap. If she has not bored a kid for you; you have no full right to her. If you the friends and family have not approved her; she is not yours yet. If your love is based on living the present without thinking the future; you two are never to be.
Love is a principle. Principles are meant to make us worth people. People who can make their own decisions and not depend on public oriented decisions considering private issues. The same amount you make love relationships public you will use the same public to share your troubles. You are the only problem to your problems and the only solution to your problems.
Love is not hormone oriented. For hormones trigger feelings. Feelings are not based on compatibility for they fade. Love does not hurt for feelings do. Love never fails even the end of times for it is instilled in us always. Love does not boast for it sustains in peace and harmony.
Well, youngsters, it is time we base our love to be a private issue. If it is a must for it to be public let it be once you two have wrinkles. Have withstood the shackles and pains of marriage but still kept the spirit of togetherness.
Been watching closely these two youngsters in love through instagram and facebook. Always posting photos of them dressed in their swag style, exchanging intimate words to each other adding flavour with the love emoji, kissing (public sex act) and showing off the best of each other.
Am neither jealous nor surprised but; will that swag pay you rent in future? Keep up a family? Make you the best couple as you spend time travelling from town to town having fun; drinking the most expensive alcohols, dining in most expensive hotels, attending all kinds of parties while you take photos of you smoking shisha? Then you believe all this fun you have you two you will make a good couple. Never! She/he loves you because of your physical beauty and your money that ‘gonna’ make you two be known for money speaks louder than simplicity in our generation.
I can’t judge you. I can only give pieces of advice. A good name is better than riches. Manners maketh a man. A good wife is what Proverbs 30:10-31 describes. Love is what 1John 3:18 says. Love does wonders if given a chance to value it responsibly not imparting hormonal reactions to be love.
Love does not hate.
It cares
Love never fails.
It is unending
Love does not assume
It appreciates
Love is not blind
It is the actions in truth
Love does not give up
It embraces the pains.
The parents you are evading to guide you on Love Matters and running for public opinion are the best counsellors. You may think they know less but you know nothing! A best relationship is one led privately and seeks guidance in a way worth to emulate. Love between two isn’t a PUBLICOPINION!!
True Janet.
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