GIRL, FACEBOOK IS NOT YOUR COURT TO SPILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

I dont understand why some ladies will let social media be the best place to get advice on their problems.
They will keep posting words and sharing articles that suggest that they are desperate.
Trust me girl, if you continue in that manner, you will never learn.
A number of men; handsome and black candies that will be a choice of many girls willmake their way to our place.
They will give you the Care you have never received.
They will make you feel very important than the manner in which your now complicated lover did.
Then you make drastic and irrational conclusions thinking that they are interested in you.
He holds you on your waste then your neck, trust me, after then you can't say no if he kisses you.
You let things move so fast than you expected.
You sigh, " uuh finally I have comfort."
One, two, three days you get closer to the guy.
You lose yourself and give in to him.
He uses you then gives you words that you hate yourself and plan to be the worse than you are.
Then you start counting the number of boyfriends you have had who walked in and left just when you were almost giving you full power to love.
That's how you life will be like if you keep on posting suggestive messages to show that you are heartbroken.
That's why you will never meet a serious guy who is ready to treat you well.
He might be there but know that your stupidity keeps him there in that he fears you might commit suicide if he leaves you for good.
Girl! Give yourself some class!
Stop stooping too low for social media!
Stop being desperate of a man who has variety to choose from!
Stop making yourself look like you are begging for love when you need it genuinely.


Now let me tell you the truth about men.
They will use you and use you well if you show all your weaknesses.
They will continuously mess up with you because they know you will be back to them after all even if issues come forth.


You can never tame a man if show him your weakest points, don't close him up in a cage by blocking some numbers of his girlfriend who you think are better than you- huh girl, you don't know you just giving yourself a red card!
Why will you block numbers of ladies in your man's phone?
Wait, maybe you still have that childish mind that you have cleared them off his paths.

But

What if he has crammed their numbers?
What if he uses his friends' phone to call them?
You can't control people through your selfish gains.
You can't get into someone's life And harden his life when he thought you came to his life to make life easier for him
Instead,you make it more difficult and stressful.
Please girl if you haven't grown to a woman who knows what to do in relationships and what not to, get your feelings straight, get your being together.
You must know how to control yourself.


Trust him if he is genuine with you!
After all why will he tell you all about the girls he has in his life if he doesn't love you.
But you disrespect him and go ahead to call the "infatuated ladies you think he is grooving with" when you can use that time patching up your Walls of love!


Today I am screaming in a written by format, GROW UP GIRLFRIEND!
Stop growing to be a Child instead of a Woman who is yet to be a mother.
Listen to me girl, put relationships off social media.
The same measure you will be lavishing yourselves"deeply"in love and yet he hasn't opened his mouth to say anything, is the same measure you will be "deeply" into getting it back at himand it will crumble.
Remember Social Media is for communication and interactions not a place to publicize your relationship not unless you are very sure you will be married soonest.

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Ladies who are trying to live like girls forever and sadly you are already done with campus, grow up!
Get yourself together. By now you should know how to fight for your love and not kill his ego on social media.

I rest my case

©JanetMachuka_