Man, she ain't just a girl but a potential wife

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Some men fall in love with prostitutes not because of their characters. Not because of their habits or rather looks, but because their hearts chose them. Better to love someone who is ready to change than one whom you will never change.

Hey man, if you find a girl whom you correct and works on it, be glad. She might not change her habits instantly. Everything is gradual. You can't fall in love with someone once. True love is falling in love with a woman over and over again. If she tells you everything, that's not a woman to let go.  If her eyes truly wet and you know she is for real, just be keen you don't lose a wife because you think she is a cheat.

Listen man, that woman you love will always have men who crash on her no matter the long you have even been married. Men will call her love, babe, hun, sweetie excetra even if they know she is married. Don't lose hope on a woman who is ready to fight for you. Don't let go a woman whom you truly love. For most times people don't fall in love with others' behaviors but the heart which wants what it wants.

That girl you met is not just a girl. Inside she is a woman. A smart and wise woman who needs guidance from a man who wants to mold her and potter her to make her someone beautiful worth for himself. God created Eve from Adam's rib. He took only one rib. He never took two, three or more. Eve was cheated by the serpent and she accepted. But what did Adam do afterwards; he never let her go. She was still his woman no matter what. She was still that woman a generation of human being came from.

This is the thing boy, gentleman or rather man; a girl, lady or woman will be yours if you build correct, protect, prophesy her and be ready to improve her to be the best for you. Giving up on a woman who can be your wife and help you build a family is like throwing a gold coin into the ocean of many sharks. If she wrongs you, learn to let go; so long as it didn't affect the love you have for her.

Beauty of looks is deceitful. The beauty of a woman lies within her. If she accepts change, man that woman can take care of your home when you are gone; either to far distant place or from the face of the earth. You can never find a perfect woman. But you can make a perfect match out of the corrections you make in her. It's useless to correct a girl for some time only to dump her after some months of progress. You have not only lost a good friend but a potential wife. You ain't righteous man.

If a woman tells you I love you, she means it. She loves a man the way he is. Have you ever wondered why people who are considered poor have best marriages? Because of that woman. She knows how to keep the family together. She supports his husband. She is patient at everything. Rich men would have tried to confuse her to break up from her marriage, but love and faith kept her there. A number of men are after your woman. It's a matter of fighting. If you give up, you too weak to be a husband material. If you fight for her she will still look up to you.

Before you go man, take that girl, build her and make her a beautiful woman you can be proud of. Your mother would not have been a woman she is if your father never took time on her. Stop behaving like you have seen another better woman than her outside there. If you love her truly, just ensure that you don't lose that gem. People mess and people forgive. Furthermore, don't ever accuse your woman falsely, you will weaken her strings of love.

Stop treating her just like any other girls you have met and they messed up your life. Stop taking her for granted.  A real woman will give you a reason to smile no matter how many times she messes up. It's not how many times she has fallen, but how many times you will lift her. She needs you.

If you found a woman in a girl, never let go!